Pick-Up Artist Tips: Storytelling in Action on VH1

Okay guys, this is “Part II” of the storytelling newsletter. In “Part I” we covered why storytelling is important and how it can improve your game dramatically. Now that you are all excited to start using storytelling and understand why it is so powerful we are going to work on constructing your very own epics! In “Part I” there were two things I asked of you One was to create a list of 7-10 moments in your life worth sharing, and the other was to write down 5 things about your identity that you want people to know about you. We are going to start out working with these things. First lets take out the 7-10 story ideas and cut …

Online Dating Blunders – The Top 10 Mistakes Men Make When Contacting Women Online

Here are the top ten things that you should avoid when contacting women online. This will be the most important online dating and relationship advice that you read all year. Mistake #1: Sending her ‘just’ a wink Most internet dating sites let you send “winks” or “show interest” for free. But what does this say to her about you? When that really hot girl gets your wink, she sees a guy that’s not serious about wanting to contact her and too cheap to fork over the $20 membership fee. What a wonderful way to start off a relationship… Not! She also knows that a wink is an easy “cop-out”. Anyone can scroll through hundreds of online profiles and wink at …

Online Dating: Read her mind through her letters for you.

You’ve met someone great online. It can be long distance relationship with Russian bride or perhaps someone from your city or state. The two of you seem to have perfect match and you can’t wait to get her next letter. But are you sure that she truly likes you and her intentions are serious? How do you know that your correspondence have all chances for future serious relationships and she is not just a pen pall and waist of your time? Here are the communication, relationship, and attention signs to make everything clear before you meeet your lady. Communication Dating is never easy and especially online dating. Online dating is a completely different way of communication comparing with communication face …

Love addiction and letting go

Did you ever meet your Mr Big: the love of your life – your Soul Mate? Did something within you rise up and insist, ‘This is the one, this is forever or this is divine destiny.’ Poems and love songs express it all with, ‘You were meant for me and I was born to love you.’ Love and death are the two life experiences which really compel us to look at life and the nature of reality. The loss of love, such as a divorce, the end of long term relationship or even an unrequited love can be as devastating as a death. We try to be rational and look for answers from an intellectual viewpoint, but we rarely, if …

Interracial Dating-Does It Turn You On?

Interracial dating and intermarriage has increased in the last century due to greater human mobility and multiculturalism. It should be remembered that personal preferences and the presence or absence of prejudice are irrelevant to people who are born and die in the same town or city, which was often the case before the invention of the automobile and the jet plane. Before the 20th century, with the exception of soldiers and traders, most people rarely interacted with foreigners. Even the term “interracial dating” is subject to interpretation. Often people take it to mean marriage between caucasians, asians and blacks. However, most people have strong historic, national and linguistic identities as well, which may cause more interpersonal differences than just ethnological …

Interracial Dating – Prejudice is Alive and Well!

Any observer of the dating scene will know that there is a wide array of people seeking inter-racial or inter-cultural relationships. The area is of quite some controversy, with some viewing mixed relationships as an attack on their culture or race, and others regarding it as the ultimate melting pot ideal. However, my view is that often it is more complicated than that and racism can live well in the minds of people who are seeking mixed relationships, and there are particular stereotypes that people have in mind. One case in particular is that of white men who are seeking ‘Asian’ women. This is a discussion of my findings on personal ads put out by white men in Asian press …

Infidelity Investigation – Warning Signs of Wife Infidelity And How to Catch The Cheater

Definition of Infidelity According to the dictionary, infidelity means unfaithfulness to a sexual partner, and in layman terms this simply means that your girlfriend / wife or your boyfriend/husband could be cheating on you for someone else. No marriage, no matter how rich, religious, political or powerful, is immune to the threat of unfaithfulness, so say experts who give advice on how to survive infidelity. Relationship Infidelity Infidelity in a marriage or in relationship is a bitter pill to swallow. Not simply because we strive to make our relationships thrive and survive in an all-challenging world, but because nobody, including you, can live along successfully with this lie! Infidelity in relationship can happen to you!. Relationship infidelity is cruel and …

How to Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere, Part I

One of the most common questions I have gotten in my 11 years of teaching Speed Seduction® is: what are some good and easy ways to meet women? Recently, someone sent me an email, where, among other things, he said, “I hate going to clubs and bars, and at 35 years old, I feel out of place in them anyway.” Now, this is one of the most common questions I get. And it’s good to see a guy up there in his 30s still pushing for what he really wants. Personally, as a 45 year old geezer who is as close to ugly as you can get without getting your face banned by the FDA, I still go for and …

How to Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere (Part 2 of 2)

Last week, I was answering a question about how to meet women, anytime, anywhere, and I had so much to say on the subject, I had to continue it on to this week’s issue. So once again the question being discussed is, “what are some good and easy ways to meet women?” I discussed a bit about 4 different “approach positions” and how a good pick-up either rapidly jumps from one to another or is somewhere between two positions, combining their attitude or “energy”. (I don’t care if you don’t believe in energy… chicks do!) Since this is one of my favorite topics, let me continue on in this issue and give you some more keys for meeting women. And …

How To Get A Woman’s Phone Number And Email Address Within Three Minutes Of Meeting Her

Answers To Two Common Questions… I get different variations of two questions so often, that I’m going to address them both quickly. 1) What if she has a boyfriend? MY COMMENTS: Say “Next” and find yourself a woman that doesn’t have a boyfriend. I personally don’t think it’s worth the hassle, energy, or effort. Plus, I don’t like to be the guy that ruins relationships. And I personally don’t like to date women who have no integrity (think about it). So just find a girl that’s single… and chances are that someday soon the one you like will be single… and you’ll be more attractive because you’re dating other women. 2) I have this girl that’s been a friend for …

How to Deal with Rejection from Women

Are women actually interested in you when they first see you? Or is it that they are interested in what they are seeing as a reflection of their own ideals and expectations? And what about when women reject you or don’t even give you a chance? Has this hurt you before even though other guys will tell you not to take it personally or to just ‘keep on approaching and you’ll get over it’? Well I’m going to help you deal with this ‘rejection’ and set it more straight right now (for free). What’s really going on are many different things and on different levels. I want you to be able to differentiate a woman’s response to you so that …

How To Be True To Yourself And Be In A Relationship!

The Three Stages Of Relationships Stage 1: The Dependent Relationship Woman were dependent on men. Men were not supposed to express their emotions and were confined to the role of “breadwinner”. Woman were confined to the role of housewife, with little political or economic power and few opportunities to move beyond their household lives. We needed each other in order to feel whole and complete. The first stage partner says “I need a partner to complete me.” Both partners come from feeling incomplete. Stage 2: The 50/50 relationship Two independent people, whole unto themselves, coming together as equals and evenly splitting the responsibilities of the household finances and childrearing. Even though this was a great step from dependency most woman …

Finding the G Spot: A Guided Exercise

We are often asked for help in finding a woman’s g spot. To support you around this, we’ve created a simple, easy exercise that takes about an hour. Be sure to try it when you have space and time to do it fully. You’ll notice that much of this exercise deals with the time and set up BEFORE you actually try to find the g-spot. This is intentional. It is so important that a loving, intimate space be created. It is only through this that your lover’s g spot will come “out to play”. (if you’re old pro’s – we’re assuming you already have your own short-hand around all this, so we’ve written this for beginners, though there are likely …

Donald Trump and The Apprentice Rules Applied to Dating

I was reading an article about the Apprentice and some of the rules that Donald Trump and his apprentice assistants had come up with about business. While reading a lot of them I saw a huge relation to how these same rules also apply to dating as crazy as it might sound. Donald Trump is a famous Billionaire who has endured ups and downs for a number of decades. It appears a large portion of his wealth has been made in Real Estate. Recently he has had a popular reality series NBC has been showing known as the Apprentice. The Reality Show isn’t all frivolous as a lot of the other reality shows around. At the center of every episode …

Dating Tips: Using Storytelling to Attract Women

Today I want to talk to you about a subject that I feel is very important and powerful when it comes to meeting and holding the interest of not only women but anyone in your life. This subject is none other than Storytelling and when used correctly, can make your desirability with women sky rocket. Before I jump into the tips and secrets behind successful story telling and how to construct a powerful story (which will be covered more in depth in Part II) I want to clear up a few myths when it comes to the matter of story telling. Myth one: My stories have to be true and about me. Now this is ultimately up for you to …

Dating Myths for Men

To a Man Who Wants To Attract More Women and Get More Dates — But Can’t Get Started – First – Learn the Truth About These Myths! How Often Do You Find Yourself Saying: “I Wish I Knew How To attract the ladies and get more dates”? If you’re like most of the guys I know, it’s often. More often than you want to admit. We go out on “dates” with women, hoping that if we PROVE ourselves to them in some way, they’ll be interested in us and attracted to us. And time after time that just never happens. The date ends with a hug or a quick peck on the cheek, as she tells you, “I had a …