How Can You Tell If You Are In A Toxic Relationship

How can you tell if you are in a toxic relationship? Here are some clues: · Your partner puts you down (verbally) in front of others · While your partner says they love you, their actions don’t back it up. · Your partner is controlling – reading your mail or “showing up” at places you are just to “check up” on you. · Your partner tries to make you dependent on them. · You have changed things about yourself to please them. Toxic people make you feel ill just being around them. So, why would anyone end up in a toxic relationship? Why would anyone want to be with someone who makes them feel emotionally or physically harmed? A toxic …

How Can This be a Shocker?

Headline, New York Times: “A Shocker: Partisan thought is unconscious. “The thought process of a partisan being challenged is almost entirely emotional, and there are flares of pleasure when unwelcome information is rejected.” Benedict Carey, January 24, 2006. Evidently neuroscientists using MRI scanners now prove what your mother has always known. Don’t discuss politics or religion at dinner. Remember the arguments you had with her when she’d say, “Now don’t you bring up politics when Uncle Harry’s here.” “But, Mom, I want to know why he thinks the way he does.” “Don’t you dare question him. He gets all riled up and your father gets into it, too.” “But if you can’t discuss politics you can’t have a true democracy, …

How Can I Get My Partner To Change?

How much energy do you spend trying to get what you want from your partner? Think about it for a moment – how much of your thinking time is spent on what to say to your partner to get him or her to be the way you want him or her to be? Many of us spend a lot of time thinking about how to get what we want from our partner – how to get our partner to open up, be more caring, see us, love us, pay attention to us, spend time with us, have sex with us, and so on. We spend at lot of energy trying to get what we want from our partner because we …

How Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back -Takes The Right Mind Set

So, you recently went through a break up and now you are asking “how can I get my ex boyfriend back”. It seems like a simple question, but it can often be a complex process. However, there are some things you can do to make the process go more smoothly and at the same time increase your chances of success. It all starts with having the right mindset. If you don’t think you can get him back, then you are right. However, if you believe that you can get him back, then you will be much more likely to get back together. The actions you take (or don’t take) all come from your level of belief. In other words, believing …

How betrayed lovers can carry on?

Love gives life and a break up takes away a life. Why a lover can not live normally after a bad break up? What if one also feels betrayed after the breakup? These questions are as ancient as the civilization. Exploring romantic love – Let us explore some more about romantic love and break ups. A person who becomes totally involved with love loses his/her identity. The whole being revolves around the love. All the ambitions, all desires, all pains, everything in life gets related to love. Such lovers feel destroyed after the break up. If love is only a part of life one can survive easily after the break up. But will any poet call such kind of love …

How A Rebound Relationship Can Work In Your Favor

If you have broken up with the love of your life and she is in a rebound relationship, how do you get her back? A rebound relationship is one where she is dating someone else to get over you. Rebound relationships keep people from having to deal with the emotions of breaking up. They’re used to help people move on from a real love. And that’s the key to getting your ex back. She’s in a rebound relationship to deal with losing you. It does not matter why she lost you. It doesn’t matter if it is your fault or hers. It doesn’t even matter who actually called the relationship off. What matters is that you have a real love. …

How to End a Relationship

Relationships at times don’t work out as expected, and when this happens, the need to end the relationship may be a daunting endeavor. The big predicament of how to end a relationship that would protect the self-respect of the partner as well as one’s own, suddenly become a very difficult situation. In most cases of ended relationships, especially in marriages but depending on circumstance, one may need to keep in touch for a short time to partition possessions, or a longer point in time to sell the home, or in cases of children custody, being in contact for the rest of his or her life. So, how to end a relationship? Before doing anything rush, make sure that you have …

How Long to Wait for a Proposal

Each year there are many women worldwide that are thrilled to accept a marriage proposal along with a beautiful engagement ring to go with it during the holidays. On the other hand, there are also many women that were sorely disappointed when the holidays passed without a proposal or a ring. Out of this group of women, there will be many wondering just how long they need to wait for their men to pop the question. There really aren’t any hard and fast rules when it comes to this dilemma. That’s what makes it somewhat difficult to know when to stick it out or when to walk away. Granted, there ARE some guidelines that can be used to gauge whether …

How men can create spontaneous, fun, and healthy relationships with women

Women are different from men in many ways. Men are perceived to be self-centered and egotistic while women are said to be more fragile and sensitive. These are the reasons why women’s emotions are played differently in their hearts than in the hearts of men. Females want their partners or lovers to spend quality time with them—they want to be cared for and loved. Time is one of the priceless gifts people can give to each other. Spending more time with each other helps improve communication — good communication leads to edification. Edification is building up each other, this process leads to maturity and growth. Men involved in intimate relationships should strive to edify their female counterparts and vice versa. …

How men are failing with woman, attraction and dating

There are many reasons why men are failing with women and dating today but I’d like to look at it from an angle that you may not have thought about before. When it comes to the game of attraction, many men will start becoming needy, clingy, overwhelmed, etc. this means they’re giving up their OWN personal independence (during that time because it all that she sees and knows about him) and showing signs of dependency on a woman. When your emotions start to take over you have to understand where they are coming from and where they fit into the reality of things. Many men fail because they just can’t control their thoughts and physiological response to a beautiful woman. …

How Long To Wait For A Proposal

Each year there are many women worldwide that are thrilled to accept a marriage proposal along with a beautiful engagement ring to go with it during the holidays. On the other hand, there are also many women that were sorely disappointed when the holidays passed without a proposal or a ring. Out of this group of women, there will be many wondering just how long they need to wait for their men to pop the question. There really aren’t any hard and fast rules when it comes to this dilemma. That’s what makes it somewhat difficult to know when to stick it out or when to walk away. Granted, there ARE some guidelines that can be used to gauge whether …

How I Got Rid Of The Green-Eyed Monster Called Jealousy

I am ashamed to admit this but I used to have the green-eyed monster tailing me wherever I went. It was my shadow and my other half. Of course jealousy justified its presence and suspicions. It was there to protect me. Jealousy kept telling me what I should be doing and feeling. It even told me what my partner was up to and how he should be behaving and feeling toward me. Did I believe jealousy? You bet I did. That went on for years until I learnt a few painful lessons and decided that it should go and leave me alone for good. That happened too late though. My suspicions when jealousy set in cost me broken relationships, distress …

How Healthy Sex Prevents Illness

There are many positive correlations between love, sex and health. Being so, it has produced many questions….. Have you wondered if an active sex life can truly alleviate pain? Do sexually active people have fewer colds and bouts of flu? Is it true that married people live longer than single or divorced people? Can an active sex life help prevent disease and illnesses by strengthening our immune system? I have these answers and more, read on…. An active sex life is both stimulating and rejuvenating to the glandular system. When we make love the pituitary gland, the thyroid gland, the adrenal glands, the prostate and testes in men, and the ovaries in women are thoroughly exercised. The net result is …

How Girls Can Tell He’s Interested

Around 85 per cent of couples who just had their first dates remarked that before they were even introduced they were already sending signs of attention and interest to each other. These are couples that did not come from first dates, rather, tried to communicate first and see if they click. It usually begins when either one of them making contact with the eyes, a hint of interest floating in the air. The big question is: How does a girl find out if a guy is showing interest in her? Basically, that question is also answered by a set of questions. Is the guy responding when there is an attempt for conversation? Does he return back the smiles? Is he …

How Get Your Ex Back After Youve Been Dumped

So, you have gone through a break up recently and now you want to know how to get your ex back. If so, then you are not alone. There are all kinds of statistics as to whether it’s the male or female who is most likely to call off a relationship, but does it really matter in the end? Nope. Not if you have just been on the bad side of a split. It happens. Who cares who broke up with who? You just want to get your ex back, right? You can take some comfort in knowing that countless others have been in the same position. Your feelings are still real, and very valid. But you can benefit from …

How Get Your Ex Back What To Do When Shes Dumped You

How get your ex back? This is the lament of every guy who has ever been dumped. Did you know that in three quarters of break ups, it is the girl who calls the whole thing off? Guys generally want to stay together with their girlfriends. This article is about how to get ex back. First of all, you have to determine whether she did you a favor by dumping you. Too often, guys stick with girls out of inertia. It is easier to stay in an okay relationship than go out and look for a really good one. If you don’t feel that the girl who dumped you was your soul mate, consider that her calling things off might …